I mean, wow.
The amount of energy and work you’ve put into healing, growing, and crafting the incredible human you are today is an incredible thing to witness.
And yet, I know there might be moments where everything you’ve put in doesn’t feel like enough. When you are still finding yourself reaching for more.
And I want you to know that’s okay and perfectly normal. Because the major piece that gets you there (to that place of deep, incredible fulfillment) is a piece that most women haven’t been taught to prioritize: pleasure.
Pleasure. Alignment. “I can’t believe this is the life I get to live” level joy.
Now if the idea of using pleasure to tap into your absolute highest potential sounds like learning a new language fear, I want you to know it’s because women have been conditioned to put pleasure on the back burner, that it’s in the “doing” rather than the “being”.
But releasing this programming and creating a new paradigm for your life isn’t something you have to do alone. I’m here, and this is a journey we can make together.
…who everyone sees as being at the top of her game? Even when it doesn’t always feel that way behind closed doors.
…who wants to see just how big her wings can stretch, but finds herself stuck in the same carousel?
…who lights up the rooms she walks in but feels self-doubt on the inside?
…who achieves a big win, only to be looking at the next goalpost a few days (if not a few hours) later?
…who finds herself feeling almost bored, short tempered or simply not present with the things that she thought would bring her the most fulfillment (partner, kids, business)?
Then you are ready to step into a place where pleasure and alignment create your greatest impact and success. Where your next uplevel is achieved by the foundation of feeling good, rather than working harder.
(*We don’t usually post videos or photos from retreats because everything that happens is a surprise or confidential…but this was a one-time retreat and a perfect moment for sharing.)
What you don’t see in the video is how we used this unique experience to explore letting go of control, receiving even more,
– an experience shared by one of our clients last week following the 𝘉𝘦𝘺𝘰𝘯𝘥 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘌𝘥𝘨𝘦 𝘳𝘦𝘵𝘳𝘦𝘢𝘵.
The retreat is interesting to explain because communicating the experience in words is already limiting. It’s designed to put you into a highly open state, where you rewire old programs with ease and create what
Being aligned with your purpose could mean being the best mom you can be and being present with your kids.
Or, relishing the moment with your partner, really being present with them, and letting everything else fall away.
Or, in your business – creating with love and awareness of the impact you’re making
Can we talk about the full sovereignty vibes that come as a direct result of operating totally within alignment with your highest self?
The kind of alignment that feels easy, where you flow through your day without anxiety and stress.
Where your ideas and innovation seem to constantly flow? Where you’re actually excited about every aspect of what you’re building and most every moment of your day?
And here’s the thing, it’s entirely possible for you. In fact, here’s what this actually looks like:
You realize that your shadow self is no longer something to overcome or “work through” but something that is an integral part of your overall being. Just like a rose isn’t any less perfect because of it’s thorns, we never ask it to change or to show up as any other kind of rose, you’ll be able to embrace every aspect of your being…thorns and all.
You’ve built so much, and you have every intention to continue reaching to your fullest potential, but trying to get there on a foundation that’s built solely on action and growth isn’t sustainable (especially when deep fulfillment is your end goal). Together we will find the state of being where relying on pleasure as the path to next-level success is second nature. Does it mean that life is always a bed of flower petals? No, it doesn’t. But it does mean you flip the switch on the inner light that magnetizes the people and opportunities you truly desire.
With greater alignment comes a powerful ripple effect that shows in the people around you. Your relationship with your family, your friends, your team, your clients. All of which becomes a natural reflection of belonging to an epic community of sovereign women who are evolving together, the kind of community where you will find love and support even when things get hard.
You’ve worked hard to bring yourself to this place. It’s time to connect you to the final piece of the puzzle.
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Late in 2019 I was at a point in my life where I knew that my life could feel better. I had been through a divorce and other significant life challenges that left me feeling depleted and low, but the one thing I realized is that I was the common element to all of those challenges. And something in me knew very deeply that life could be more joyful and just feel better. This is when Sloane and I connected.
As I sit here today on my flight home from two weeks in Kenya- the most glorious and transformative experience with wonderful open-hearted and growth-minded women- I could not be more grateful, proud and excited about all that is my life now.
I have a thriving business; a deep, loving, fun and peaceful relationship with my kids; and a deep and loving relationship with myself. I still experience challenges and activations, but I am able to approach them with curiosity to know myself better (rather than ego); confidence that I know I am on the right path and compassion for myself and how far I have come.
Sloane has a unique gift for shining her light to help you see yourself better; challenging you when you need it; and helping you realize all that is already inside you to be able to have a life that you love-- whatever that means to you.
Working with Sloane is the greatest gift I have given myself and I feel so much gratitude to myself and to Sloane for lighting the way.
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On a personal side, my marriage is better than it's ever been. We’re excited about the future we're building together on a whole new level.
When Sloane approached me with the prospect of coaching, I was really unsure. Few people can scare an Approachable Badass and she's one of those people. Not because she's scary, but because going "there" felt intense - and it was - yet I also knew there was so much more possible for me in life and business. What a ride! In the time we’ve worked together, I’ve reorganized my business so it’s in full alignment with who I’ve become, I've magnified my impact in the world (and it started in a pretty powerful place) with the humans I want to work with, I’ve more than doubled my revenue (and counting!), and most importantly, I’m fulfilled and happy. The most fulfilled I've ever been in my life and work. We all need someone a few steps ahead of us to remind us who we can become. Sloane has been that human for me – a mentor, a guide, a coach who believed in me. I'm glad I was a full yes - I'm no longer scared of her or this woman I'm continually becoming.
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What does your day look like, when it starts in a way that feels entirely pleasure filled and aligned with what you need in the moment? Not some rigid 4 a.m. routine, not another “checklist” to work your way through before the coffee even kicks in…
A morning ritual that is entirely your own, designed to create an intentional uplevel in how you experience yourself, your day, and all areas of your life.
Start your morning with pleasure by accessing my Self Care Morning Ritual here:
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It’s Late-November, 2018. I’m at a boutique beach resort in Mexico, waking up in soft linens, enjoying delicious food, walking under the starry skies at night. It’s beautiful, idyllic, and I’m sharing it all with a group of friends and the man I love, who also loves me.
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